[Jewish] [Mindful Torah] Parshat Vayigash: Midrash on Joseph revelation of himself to ...

[Rabbi Steven Nathan]

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This week's Torah portion, Vayigash (Genesis 44:18), begins with the
words
"Vayigash aylav Yehudah...." "And Judah drew near" to Joseph to plead
for his brother Benjamin's freedom. Judah volunteered to be taken as a
slave in Benjamin's stead, so that his father Jacob would not 'lose'
another son.

Judah's pleads with Joseph to keep him instead of his youngest broth
Benjamin, who is the only other son of Joseph's mother, Rachel and,
therefore, dearest to their father. Moved by Judah's appeal, Joseph
decides at that moment to reveal himself to his brothers. Moved to
tears, he orders his servants to leave them alone so that he may reveal
his true identity. He told them not to feel guilty for having left him
in the pit. It was God's plan that Joseph should end up in Egypt, where
he could predict the famine, become Pharaoh's administrator, and save
his own family from starvation. Joseph told his brothers to return to
Jacob and bring the entire clan to Egypt where he will ensure their
well being for the remaining years of the famine.

The entire Joseph narrative can be seen as an allegory for the journey
of the ego, as represented by Joseph (see my commentary of two weeks
ago). Ultimately, we must negate the ego in order to allow the soul to
shine forth. In this week’s climax Joseph, faced with the reality of
all the suffering that ego can bring to the world, realizes that he
must unite all the pieces of himself in order to reconnect with the
soul. He sends away his Egyptian servants, representative of his
ego's "power," and standing there, stripped of all sense of pretense
and self-importance, joins in a tearful reunion with all the disparate
aspects of himself and the universe. This eventually results in the
reuniting with Jacob, his father, his human source of life (along with
his long-deceased mother). This reunion represents the oneness that we
find when we unite ourselves with our divine source, the oneness of all
existence.

This story of reconciliation is a moving one and brings us closer to
the end of this chapter in Joseph's life. Yet, as always, there is
another chapter yet to be lived. In sharing these thoughts on the
reunion as representative of the journey of negating the ego, I would
also like to share with you another Midrash I have written as a
continuation of the Joseph saga.

Shabbat Shalom,

Steven

Joseph's Choice

Joseph was seated on his throne as he watched his brothers preparing to
leave. They had just enjoyed a sumptuous feast together. They enjoyed
each other's company as if they were old friends; they had no idea that
they were dining with their brother, nor that he had been setting a
trap for them this entire time.

As they prepared to leave Joseph sprang his trap. "Wait," he
cried, "someone has stolen my goblet. The perpetrator shall be
discovered and punished appropriately." As all 11 brothers denied any
wrongdoing Joseph watched as his men searched their bags. When the
goblet was found in the sack belonging to Benjamin, the only other son
of Rachel, Joseph could hear the jaws of the trap slam shut. "This one
shall remain here as punishment for the wrong he has done me. The rest
of you may return to your father."

Then something happened that Joseph never expected. Judah, the one who
had been so instrumental in what happened to Joseph all those years
ago, offered himself in Benjamin's stead. He pleaded with Joseph to
keep him in Egypt rather than see the only other son of Rachel, the
child of Jacob's old age, remain captive, and thereby grieving – and
possibly killing – their elderly father.

As Joseph stood there looking down on his brothers, he could feel
hatred and triumph raging in his heart. Yet, somewhere deep inside he
felt another emotion trying to emerge, though he did his best to keep
it repressed. For he knew that this emotion was compassion, the source
of forgiveness, and he did not want to forgive. Above all else, he
wished nothing less than that. To see his brothers suffer as he did was
his greatest desire. Only after that might he be willing to entertain
any other idea.

As he felt hatred and compassion struggling within him he suddenly
remember a dream that he had the night before. And he realized, yet
again, that it was a dream that held the key to his decision and his
future.

In this dream, he imagined that he was standing, as he was now, above
his brothers as they watched the goblet emerge from Benjamin's sack. In
that moment, it appeared all the brothers turned as one towards
Benjamin pointing an accusing finger at him. They encircled him like
lions surrounding their prey, moving ever closer, tightening the
circle, and preventing his escape.

Then, Joseph saw a deep pit in the earth just behind Benjamin. As the
other brothers moved closer to Benjamin he continued to step back in
fear, unaware of the danger behind him. As Benjamin stood almost at the
edge of the pit, Joseph cried out "stop!" This the brothers did. What
happened next astonished Joseph even more than it did his brothers. For
Joseph descended the steps from his throne and pushed aside the
brothers. He then stood in front of Benjamin and looked deeply into his
eyes, not saying a word. All held their breath, wondering what he would
do. He then reached out his hands and placed them on Benjamin's
shoulders, all the while fixing his gaze on those familiar eyes. Their
mother’s eyes. Then, without warning, Joseph shoved Benjamin as hard as
he could and listened to his scream as he fell into the pit. The
brothers gasped as they witnessed history repeating itself.

The room was silent, but for the low sobs rising from the depths where
Benjamin lay. Joseph looked down into the pit, but all he could see
through the darkness was Benjamin’s eyes looking up at him through his
tears. As he looked deeply into the well, into the eyes of Rachel's
only other son, he suddenly heard a wail, a scream, unlike any he had
heard before. This cry pierced his heart; it pierced the heavens. It
was as if its grief could tear the world in two.

Then Joseph awoke. Yet, he was confused, for the scream still
continued. He looked around his bedchamber, but could not find its
source. He looked outside, but no one was there. He wanted to follow
the sound of the cry, but he could not tell from which direction it
came. It was as if the cry came from everywhere and from nowhere. It
was as if it came from deep within Joseph, himself.

Then the wail changed to a deep sobbing, which gave way to the voice of
a woman crying softly, "Joseph, my Joseph, what have you done to your
brother? What have you done to yourself? To me? To us all?" Joseph knew
that voice. Even though he had not heard it since he was a youth, it
was a voice he could never forget. The voice of his mother. Joseph
remained silent.

Then Rachel’s voice spoke again. "Joseph, you must undo what you have
done. You must release your brother from the pit. You must undo what
has been done to him and to you." "But how? Why?” Joseph asked. “For
all these years, I have never forgotten what my brothers did to me. Not
a day has passed when I did not dream of setting things right. Now my
opportunity has arrived. How can you deny me this justice, mother?"

"Justice!" replied Rachel, "this is not justice. This is hatred. This
is revenge. This will eventually bring about the destruction of our
family, our people and all humanity, if it does not cease." Joseph
again remained silent, as his mother continued. "Joseph, look down into
the pit. Look into the eyes of the only other child ever to emerge from
my womb. "But the pit is not here," replied Joseph, "that was merely in
my dream." "Look," Rachel commanded. Suddenly Joseph saw that there was
indeed a pit in front of him, just as in the dream. Perhaps he had
never really awoken? Perhaps he simply went from one dream into
another? Or perhaps in that moment there was no separation between the
world of dreams and the world of reality?

Joseph looked into the pit and saw his brother's eyes staring at him
through the darkness. "Look deeply into those eyes," implored
Rachel, "and tell me who you see." Joseph looked deeply for what seemed
an eternity, then he spoke, "I see my brother…. I see you, my
mother..…I see myself." "Exactly," exclaimed Rachel, "We are all one.
And so are we one with your other brothers as well. Benjamin lying
there in the pit is your family – a family that has tricked and
deceived so many through the years. This is a family where twin
brothers vied for parental blessings. A family where sisters strove
with one another for a man's love and attention. A family where
brothers plotted together to destroy the life of another brother. He is
all of these, as are you.

"Continue looking into his eyes, my beloved son, and you will see
yourself in him. Then look inside your soul and you will see him, as
well as the rest of our family, in you. You must release him from his
captivity. If you do not, neither you nor anyone in our family will
every be free!"

Joseph suddenly looked up, breaking gaze with his brother, and cried
into the air, "But why should I release him? You said it yourself. In
our family it has always been brother against brother, sister against
sister, parent against child. Perhaps it is seeking retribution that is
truly the fulfillment of our destiny!"

"No!" cried Rachel, "I have come to you from my grave to tell you that
this is not the way! I am here in Bethlehem alone. I was not buried
with my family. I was not gathered to my ancestors, as is our custom. I
was left out here alone by the side of the road where I died, as a
reminder of what jealousy and struggle brings. I may have received more
love from your father than did my sister, but in doing all I could to
hold on to that love, I separated myself from her, and ultimately from
everything and everyone.

"Yet, I know that Leah and I never truly hated one another, nor do you
hate your brothers. We just were too narrow-minded and selfish to see
that we were actually part of each other. Perhaps we understood this at
the beginning. But as the competition for love and children continued
we could each only see our individual suffering and pain. We were blind
to the suffering of the other and everyone around us, just as your
father had been blind to the suffering of his brother when he stole the
blessing and the birthright.



“Do not be blind Joseph! See … not with your eyes, but with your soul.
Listen … not with your ears, but with your heart. See the suffering of
your brother; for it is your suffering, it is the suffering of all
humanity. Hear his sobs, for they are your sobs. They are the sobs of
all who desire simply to live in freedom and happiness and are
prevented from doing so. Hear him and see him now, for he is the same
as you, all those years ago. He is the same as those yet to be born who
will also suffer so long as there is hatred in the world. Look …
Listen … Feel … my beloved, and you will understand what I mean."

Slowly Joseph walked again to the edge of the pit and looked down at
his younger brother. He had been but a mere child when Joseph was sold
into slavery. He looked down and saw the eyes that were his and his
mothers. As he continued to look, he began to feel the hatred well up
within him once again. Then he remembered his mother's plea. He
breathed in deeply and looked again, this time with his soul. He saw
the pain and the fear in his brother. The longer he stood there, the
more he felt the same pain and fear within himself. He wanted to run
from it, but he did not. He knew he needed to stay there, still, quiet,
and allow himself to feel these emotions, no matter how difficult it
might be. Then he began to truly listen, for the first time, to the
sounds coming from the well. They were not sounds of hatred, envy or
jealousy. They were the sounds of pain and fear. They were the cries of
someone who did not know if he would ever see sunlight again. They were
the sounds of someone who believed that he would never again know
happiness. They were the sounds that Joseph had made all those years
ago, as he lay in the pit alone, prepared to die.

As he truly looked and listened, he could feel the pain, fear and
longing deep within him. As he continued to pay attention to those
feelings, he then sensed them slowly turning into compassion and mercy
toward his brother, towards himself, toward his brothers and towards
all in the world who are suffering. As the compassion and mercy grew,
the pain, fear – and anger – diminished. It did not disappear totally,
but it did disappear enough for him to begin to realize that his mother
was right. The only way to break the cycle of anger, fear, jealousy and
hatred that had plagued his family was to release Benjamin – and
himself – from the pit. The only way to do his small part in bringing
compassion and peace to humanity and the world was to show compassion
towards Benjamin. But this was not enough. For he knew that he needed
to show compassion and mercy not just to Benjamin, but also to all of
his brothers.



The past was past. This was a new day, a new moment. Joseph had the
opportunity to change the present. Hopefully, the future would follow
suit. But that would remain to be seen.

At that moment, Joseph realized that he was still in his throne room,
surrounded by his brothers. He saw the youngest, Benjamin, not deep in
a pit, but in the clutches of his men, prepared to be taken into
slavery. He saw Judah, now with a look of bravery and compassion on his
face, prepared to take Benjamin's place so that their father would not
again experience a loss like he had when they sold Joseph into slavery.
The faces were the same as all those years ago, yet they were
completely different. As he looked at them, he felt love and compassion
begin to well up inside him. He then had no doubt what he must do.

And so he ordered his guards to release Benjamin and then commanded
them to leave him alone with the Canaanite men. He knew that he was
about to reveal his true self to his brothers and that they were about
to begin the process of which his mother had dreamed. His reunion with
them, with himself, and ultimately with his father, was about to begin.

He had no idea how things would turn out. All he knew in that moment
was what he must do in order to bring some peace and healing to his
family and himself, thereby bringing a little more peace and wholeness
to all of God's creation then, and hopefully in the future.


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Posted By Rabbi Steven Nathan to Mindful Torah at 12/25/2009 06:55:00 PM
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